The Colorado Civil Rights Commission has affirmed an earlier ruling by a judge that a Christian baker, who refused to make a cake for a gay wedding (original story here), must serve gay couples despite his religious (Christian) beliefs. Last December, a Colorado judge ordered the baker to bake cakes for gay couples and prove he had done so. That ruling was appealed in January.
Jack Phillips owns Masterpiece Cakeshop in Lakewood, Colorado. He is a Christian man who has been baking cakes at that establishment since the '90s. He holds the Biblical belief that homosexuality is a sin and is wrong. It's what the Bible says, and those of us who believe the entire Bible is the God-inspired handbook on Christian living, hold those same beliefs. We aren't saying it, we are just repeating what God has said in His Word to us and it's up to us to be obedient to those teachings. All those teachings.
Mr. Phillips has stated that he'd gladly make any other pastry item for gay people, just not a wedding cake.
When I first heard about this case and others (a photographer and flowershop in the southwest and another baker in the northwest), I have to tell you that the hair on the back of my neck stood up in anger. This anger is a reaction to the "in your face" homosexual movement in this country. They are intolerant, even while demanding tolerance from those who disagree with their lifestyle. They are very vocal. Very organized. They can be militant.
Now, in the Bible, God does not say homosexuality is the worst sin ever. He does call it an abomination and that's because it goes against His creation. However, He does call it a sin. There's no disputing that fact. There's no further explanation, like, a non-committed homosexual relationship is a sin, but a committed one is OK.
When God saw it was not good for man to be alone, He put Adam to sleep, took out a rib, and created woman. Notice, He did not create another man. Creating woman, as He did, would set up marriage as God sees it. To paraphrase Jerry McGuire, "she completes him"; to paraphrase the Bible, "and the two become one flesh". In Godly, Biblical marriage, a man and a woman can have children and "be fruitful and multiply" as God commanded them. You cannot do that with two men or two women. It's the way God set things up. If you have a problem with that, don't complain to a Christian, complain to God.
In the New Testament, God tells us, and I am paraphrasing, the two most important Commandments are "Love God" and "Love People". In those two all the law given in the Old Testament will be fulfilled.
So, as Christians, we need to know what is sin according to God, so we can be obedient and stay away from doing those things, but we also have to be obedient by following the two most important Commandments. We cannot pick and choose what to accept and follow. Many people will do that to support their personal beliefs, but if you don't accept and follow the entire Bible, then you might as well accept and follow none of it.
At one company I worked at, I befriended two women. They are sisters. I suspected one of them was gay, but I was not sure. They were both a lot of fun to be around. We laughed a lot when hanging around each other. I did not hide my Christianity, from them. I don't hide it from anyone. They knew I was a deacon at my church and so on. Well, one day, the one I thought was gay said that she needed to tell me something and at that moment the Holy Spirit told me she would tell me she was a lesbian. So, we set it up to meet later in the week at lunch time. She brought me into her car and "came out" to me. I really did not know the exact words I would say to her or how exactly I would even react, but the Holy Spirit took over. Well, I took a breath and very calmly the words began to flow. I told her, lovingly, that I believed in the Biblical view of homosexuality and that would never change. I also told her, however, I believed in the Biblical view that I should love her and that would never change either. From that day forward, I made sure to live that out with her each and every time we were together. We are friends to this day. I never compromised either belief, nor will I, but I was able to have a relationship with her and never waiver from my beliefs.
Why do I relate that story? Well, I think we, as a Christian community, are reacting to this whole gay wedding thing wrong. I am not, nor will I ever, say we should compromise our belief that homosexuality is a sin and as a result, gay "marriage" really does not exist. It goes directly against how our Father in heaven set things up and, after all, we are His creation, so we should follow that steadfastly!
But, in my opinion, instead of opting out of service to gay people, we should be overwhelming them with Jesus. Not only should we bake cakes for them, but we should shower them with the Gospel. Who else will love on these people, if not Christians? We are called to "Love People"! How is not providing what we do to them loving them? And by loving on them, I mean, sharing the Gospel, the message of the saving grace and mercy of our LORD and Savior Jesus Christ. It's what we are called to do. We should do it! It would seem to me to be a divine appointment if a gay person identifies themselves as such to a Christian. What an opportunity for us to be God's loving children!
We should not "celebrate" gay people's lifestyle. I get that. It's not up to us to show we are happy that anyone is willingly sinning.
Let me ask this, how many gay people, adulterers, liars, cheats, violent people go in and out of every establishment run by Christians everyday, including Masterpiece Cakeshop in Lakewood, Colorado, and are sold this or that or provided with this or that service? If Christian businesses refused service to sinners, they'd have no business at all and, worse yet, would not be fulfilling Jesus's command of going out into the world and being His witnesses!
However possible, without getting caught up in their sin, we need to give the lost as much of Jesus as we can.
In the Casting Crowns song, "Jesus, Friend of Sinners" it says it aptly:
"Nobody knows what we're for only what we're against when we judge the wounded. What if we put down our signs crossed over the lines and loved like You did?"
The only signs we should be carrying are those proclaiming the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Those proclaiming the love of Christ. The amazing grace and mercy of Christ. Then, and only then, are we fulfilling our true roles on this planet and that is "Loving God, by loving people" because we will be the obedient, loving children our Father in heaven calls us to be.
If we did this, we wouldn't have our Godless government telling us what to do, because we'd already be doing what our Father in heaven has told us to do. And, in doing so, will fulfill His command to us, and, after all, isn't that more important than refusing someone a piece of cake?
